You know, This is one of those topics that isn’t on most peoples radar. (forewarning I’m going to callously talk about things considered taboo) Sure, You have the rainbows and the cringeworthy prose, But what does it all mean? “love has no gender” “There’s So many genders” “Oh, Gender’s Fluid”
It’s empty, devoid of meaning. I want something more substantial.
I’ve been wanting to write this for a while now. After years of soul searching I know this stuff inside and out. I’m no stranger to it. A Buddhist Saying comes to mind: “In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities, in the expert’s mind there are few.”
I’ve studied gender myself for years now. Pondering, thinking, exploring. Doing so allowed me to see so many other things. False Dichotomies, Western logic being predicated on black and white, and so on. Gender is no different. So, I like to think of it this way. Take The Current way of looking at it. Someone is either male or female. anyone that doesn’t fit into this framework is considered a “freak”, Queer, And out to ruin society and stuff (oh, so evil!). though be honest , I’m not really sure what dying your hair and getting piercings has to do with it?
If you want to express your personality find a creative outlet, Find a cool style of clothes you like, get to know yourself. It should spring forth from within.
Well, Wanna Read on? I’ve since made a far better post on this subject.